Many of the impulses and ‘prime directives’ for finding a suitable adult dating partner re hardwired deep within the primitive parts of the human brain. Some women can just knock you right out the moment you first set eyes on them, while others barely move the needle on your peter meter. Why? Because an unconscious image exists within you of what your ideal female looks like. When you happen to stumble across someone who matches this internal portrait walking down the street or standing in line at the supermarket, you are assaulted with all sorts of alarms and whistles going off in your brain. You instantly launch into all sorts of uncontrollable sexual fantasies.
Since spreading his seed far and wide is the male’s most elementary biological imperative, it takes only seconds for him to determine if any particular woman is someone he’d like to mate with, since obvious signs of health and youth (adequate breeding potential) is really all he needs. In that sense it’s fairly easy for the male. For male the calculus of attraction is relatively straightforward. For women though, it’s somewhat more complex --and therein lies the central challenge of seduction.
The female must make a determination about the suitability of a man not just in terms of his visual attractiveness, (which only partly reveals his genetic stock) but also his character. Since it will be necessary for him to contribute his time and resources in order to successfully raise any offspring resulting from their union, this takes more than just a quick visual once over, but interestingly enough, the female brain is also wired with mental shortcuts that allow her to promptly size up a potential mate. Playing to these subconscious shortcuts can powerfully affect the way in which you are perceived and categorized in her mind.
In other words, First Impressions are critical!
You see, a woman’s interest in mating always begins deep within the limbic portion of her brain where her most basic instincts for procreation reside. All your efforts to seduce her must take into account an essential duality of her psychology so that you are simultaneously stimulating two divergent parts of her consciousness in order to lead her along towards that coveted moment of sexual surrender. 1) You petition her higher conscious mind with your words and the intriguing content of your speech. At the same time, 2) you must quickly begin to signal your desirability as a sexual partner to her unconscious limbic brain with your attitude and subliminal behaviour patterns. You must get both aspects of this mojo working correctly, or any budding seduction will fizzle with stunning dispatch. And you will soon be the one being dispatched!
